The Shy Style: LifeStyle

"Make Your Dreams Happen"

Been away for several months, with loads of thoughts going around in my head, and mostly focused on university, work, myself, and all the projects that I have.

In life everyone has a goal, if not they are still thinking of it; even though I'm happy where I am today, I still feel that there is something missing in me, this was actually realized last month. The GOAL that I have set fro my life, is to finish university, graduate from it, and think about myself for once; people have stopped me several times from thinking about myself, but this time no one will interfere with my plans. The goal is to work so hard, and go abroad to a place which I have dreamed about for several years, L.A., it might actually sound a bit weird, but I have always imagined myself living there, and that is what I intend to do; there I will focus more about this blog, about myself, getting back into dancing and also singing, and maybe also create a YouTube channel where I can express myself better with other people.

My life was always about not being confident, not being able to express myself in this world, and I got bullied to a point where I stopped believing myself; I wish bullying would stop; and I just want to prove people wrong. Even though it might take a while to achieve what I want, I will still work hard for it to happen.

Also these last few weeks, while thinking about my life, if you guys follow my Instagram account, the art account, you would see that I have been doing some digital artworks, to get my mind off things.

That is everything for today's post. Let me know what Your Goals are for your life.

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Mona.

xoxo

February 12, 2019 No comments

"Impossible is just an opinion"

- Paulo Coelho

So... what have I been up to in these months that I have not opened blogger at all?...

Been busy is the first thing to say... My phone gave up on me, yes it did, unfortunately, so had to buy a new expensive phone, which got me totally broke, had my driving test, which I passed.

That big smile says everything, I remember like it was yesterday, starting my first lesson, with a full on anxiety attack, was so afraid to drive, but thanks to the people who are close to me, made it to the driving test, still panicking, but passed on the first attempt.

Still don't have a car though! But working for it.

Started University, my last 2 years, finally, yes heard me right, I wrote finally, it's just the stress that the school gives us is too much, like way too much, who would love to finish school at 8 pm? Not me!

I might have posted a short video of my voice somewhere on the internet too, haha, miss posting videos and would want to work on my voice, so for now there is a video not showing myself but yep.

Also I have been working hard to accept and love more my body, by posting appreciation posts on Instagram, so make sure to check those out. Therefore through out these months I have been focusing more on myself, and my mentality on myself, still need to do more work on helping myself and accepting who I am, but I'm half way there, it is never impossible to accept who I am at the end of the day.

Yes,
Busy Life,
Busy Mona.

If I do not post anything here, know that I will be on Instagram posting stuff, but I will try my hardest to get back to blogging and to create content.

That is everything for today's post!

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Mona.

xoxo

November 23, 2018 No comments

"Make it a September to Remember."

It has been such a long time to the last blog post that I did, and trust me I have been all around the place, with working at feasts, and doing a synoptic, blogging was the last thing that was on my mind.

But now that everything stopped and I am finding myself back in to place, I searched for some inspiration, and here I am!

Today's post is a to do list for September, I know this month has already started and we are already on the 11th day, but yeah; I have never tried to do a post like this, but seeing other bloggers tend to do these said to myself why not give it a try.

Not everyone plans their month, not even I do, but you know sometimes planning ahead is good, and it keeps you on track with everything you have or you do.

September to do list:

Apply for my driving license:

I have been driving on the road for a year now, and trust me I'm just terrified to face the test, like I love driving and I drive really well (as to what my driving instructor says) it's just that I'm afraid that I will fail. It won't be big of a deal if I fail, since I can try again, but yeah no one would want to fail. So next week I'll apply for the test and hope for the best.

Get back in to blogging:

God I missed blogging about lifestyle things, and I am trying to change it up a bit, so I hope I can create more posts and more content, and also come up with more ideas on what to blog.

Get back to UNI:

So since it is September, it is the month where everyone goes back to school or university, my case I start somewhere in October, but preparing school stuff from now sounds more organizing for me.

Make a 'Blog Friend':

I'm not that good in having internet friends since there is always people who stop talking to you after the first time. But I actually would want a friend who blogs! So if you blog and are searching for a friend! I'm here!

Get back in to singing:

I have been singing on my own for about 7 years or more, and I really would want to go somewhere with my voice, or get help with my vocals; I would reconsider also to create a YouTube channel and sing on there, the only thing that keeps me from doing it is that it's easily to get hated or judged.

So that is everything for my September to do list, don't forget to show me yours!

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Mona.

xoxo

September 11, 2018 No comments

"Sometimes You Win,

Sometimes You Learn."

- Unknown.

Wondering where I've been through out these months?

Let me tell you, a break from blogging had to be taken, I was busy every day with my assignments, and I was really late on some of them. Also I wasn't getting any inspiration to write here, and was thinking about my life in particular on how I want to develop my career.

As you may have read the title, today I'm going to tell you what I wish to tell to my younger self.

These are the 5 things that I would probably say:

Don't listen to a single word that your bullies tell you, or call you. Heads up and Stay Strong.
Do not attempt any mistakes in your life, cause you'll regret doing them, and Do Not trust people who think they are something.
Use you Freedom, Explore your life.
Travel as much as you can.
Do what makes YOU happy, and be confident with what you do.

In my past, I learned so much lessons, one of them was to not let anyone between people, cause these type of people, damn haha, they can ruin every friendship, and if you do something they would be on to you; so never trust people like them.

Another thing was that bullies brought me down at my best, and the only way to get stronger was to actually be something different, it also brought me down on my career.

The last point is about because I would have started something, and later on deleted it due to my lack of confidence, for example I had YouTube channel once, but deleted everything due to confidence, and also to people stalking me.

That's all that I would say to my younger self!

So since I spoke about YouTube, I have been considering to start again with posting, and stuff, the only situation is that I don't afford a professional camera, do you guys think I should start a new YouTube Channel? Comment down below and let me know!

That's all for today's blog post, let me know what you would want to see on here.

I would love to know some of your amazing ideas!

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Mona.

xoxo

June 28, 2018 No comments

"The Beginning of Wisdom

is to Call Things by their Right Names."

- Chinese Proverbs.

Hi Ladies and Gents!

First of all I want to say a big sorry for not posting for like months now, these past few months I have been suffering from a lot of college stress; the amount of assignments that I have been having are so unbelievable, like how can a person do a ton of huge assignments for 5 different subjects for a week.

Secondly, I hope you had an amazing Easter, and I'll wish you a Happy Belated Easter, hope you ate as much as I did; haha what a joke couldn't eat properly due to stomach sickness that I have been having, from all the stress.

Today's post is an unusual one, as you may have read from the title, the blog name is being mentioned. Yes, I am going to tell you the reason to why I named this blog The Shy Style, so everyone who has a blog has this story behind the name, I actually don't, I mean I was in the moment of creating, and the name came to me. To be honest, I was going through a lot of blogs to see the names and how creative they are, and then I came up with it, okay so the shy part is about me actually. People who know me would say I'm not shy just because the way I act, but actually I am, and the ones who are close to me would know that I am so shy to even make friends or to eat from outside sometimes.

The style part is something literally different but then when combined they make sense, so I have my own style, I'm not in to that girly stuff sometimes, but I get interested more when trying to go for the relax look, so kind of I have my own style which I get afraid to use sometimes. So when combining them you get shy style, when not sharing your looks with people I feel like the person is shy to show the style.

So this blog is about My Shy Style, my stories, my life, and my style.

That's all for today's blog post, let me know what you would want to see on here.

I would love to know some of your amazing ideas!

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Mona.

xoxo

April 04, 2018 No comments

"Being Organized Is

Being In Control."

Hey Guys! How are you doing?

This will be my last blog post for this year 2017 since this weekend the year will be ending, next week I will try my best to put out another post for you. So today's post will be about how I stay organized with both this blog and my college, everyone suffers sometimes in being organized.

So starting off with College:

I manage to stay focused and organized when using these things, like a notebook to write my own notes and stuff, I use the one with the elephant on which is found in the photo.

I use color coded pens and also highlighters, and also sticky notes, sometimes, this helps me to remember more and to know what I have to do and to finish.

Since I am in a art college I would always need to carry around pencils and big stuff, so you need to have a proper backpack which isn't confusing and that you have space, and also a big bag to carry around paint stuff and sketchbooks.

And I have an English lesson which had to be included, so therefore I carry around a pocket file to keep the notes in so that they don't get lost.

The last thing that I use is an app 'FreeHour - Student App', it keeps track about my assignment deadlines, exams, and also the timetable, it helps every student to stay organized at school, college, and also university. As seen in the picture below, the app shares with us students, the offers that there are available in Malta, jobs, the stipend countdown, and you can contact some of your class mates for a group schedule.

You may find the app right here: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.vioside.freehour

For the Blog:

I carry around a notebook which I bought from a stationary, but can be found from 'Brunnen', this helps me to write down my ideas in and develop them later on.

Another app that I use is Bloglovin', this helps me with keeping up with my favorite blogs.

Another things which I consider for bloggers, but still need to buy for myself are a calendar and also a planner, and a To-Do-List.

That’s all for today’s blog!

Let me know on what you think and how you organize yourself!

I hope you likes this post! tell me on what I should blog about next!

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And Happy New Year!

Mona.

xoxo

December 29, 2017 No comments

December 28, 2017 No comments

"To Blog =

To Share

To Connect

To Create

To Inspire"

Hey People of Earth!

Hope you are all doing fine. So today's post is about some tips that I'd like to give you when starting a blog, I've been blogging for the past about 6 months now and Yeah I will admit I do have complications when trying to post but I do my best. I have had an amazing time being online blogging and sharing with you and speaking about different topics, and I did learn stuff but there is much more for me to learn.

For those who are planning on starting a blog and creating content, all I have to say is "Go For It! Express Yourselves through blogging, and have fun. And never give up on your hopes!"

So let's start with the simplest tip, which is to take your time: Blogging isn't something which will be easy from the beginning, and there will be lots of questions, like what subject will I be blogging about, what shall I name the Blog. What's the appropriate theme for it, in my opinion all you can do is some research, a lot of bloggers do it. But Never Give Up and Don't Stress a lot about it.

Select the subjects that you love to talk about: This is such an important point, when coming to blogging, cause what's the point in creating a blog which you're not interested in.

Don't be scared to put yourself out there: Everyone gets a little bit scared to tell people about their blog, since not everyone has the same likings and opinions. But don't let these people affect you, and your confidence.

Never compare yourself to others: You will see so many other bloggers who are succeeding in this industry, but never forget that their blog once was like yours, they worked hard to get followers, etc. Always focus on your own Blog and Content.

Always keep a notepad close by: Since people get ideas when travelling and doing their own life things, its helpful to keep a small notebook with you so that when you have ideas you can write them down.

Never Stop Learning: Bloggers will never fully learn all the stuff that there is to know, even I have to learn a lot about blogging, and you can always improve.

Make Internet Friends: It's always important for us to connect with other bloggers, this will help us to get more confident and also to develop more of our ideas and collaborate with other bloggers.

Last but not least is to always have fun: It's always good to remember that it's just a blog and that it doesn't have to always be serious, remember why you actually started and Have Fun!

Goodluck and don't be afraid to give it a try!

That’s all for today’s blog!

I hope you likes this post! tell me on what I should blog about next!

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Mona.